I have always been a fighter to keep and save love in my romantic relationships. Even when they were over! So much, that I would confuse what were acceptable behaviors from what were not from my partners.
In my new book, Heart 2 Heart now available on Amazon, I dedicate several chapters on certain behaviors I confused for and compensated with handing out more love and compromise cause I did not know any better. Ultimately the relationship got worse and led to heartbreaks and a bruising heart in need of patching!
You know, the type that keeps taking punches like a boxer in a ring all the while believing they are closer to a win!
Here are some behaviors I faced in my relationships that I believed more love from me and worth fighting to save would bring good love. How novice of me!
*Inability to compromise *Different goals or outlooks on life *Repeated issues
*Continual lies *Constant criticism *Constant unfaithfulness *Has no remorse or regret
*Won't apologize for mistakes *Playing the blame game
I am no therapist, love coach or any other love expert. But I can safely tell you if you are in love and facing such behaviors from your spouse or partner, please exit with a laugh asap! They are signals of worse love coming to you! No repairing possible!!
For ways to exit with a laugh, purchase my Ebook or Paperback copy here, join our public Heart-Makers forum and/or our private Heart2Hearts Community group on Facebook by sharing your love-bad story and get your own black and white or color self-deprecating heart cartoon depicting your exit or future exit.
In case you are wondering why laughing away pain/breakup is a good idea, check this video on how:
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